Oliver JR Cooper
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- Abuse, Awareness, Behaviour, Boundaries, Defence Mechanism's, Emotional Intelligence, Happiness, Men's Psychology, Movie Metaphors, Relationships, Self Image, Self Realisation, Social Causes, The Ego Mind, Women's Psychology.
- Best Sellers
- Toxic Shame - Is It Defining Your Life?
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- Author, Writer, Teacher and Consultant
Author of 28 books, prolific writer, teacher and consultant, Oliver JR Cooper, hails from England. His insightful commentary and analysis cover all aspects of human transformation; including love, partnership, self-love, self-worth, enmeshment, inner child, true self and inner awareness. With over three thousand, seven hundred in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behaviour, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice.
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Oliver JR Cooper Books
A Dialogue With The Heart: A Collection Of Poems And Dialogues From The Heart
http://www.amazon.com/Dialogue-Heart-Collection-Poems-Dialogues/dp/1491203765/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1410104833&sr=1-2
Trapped Emotions: How Are They Affecting Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Trapped-Emotions-They-Affecting-Your/dp/1499208561/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1407679404&sr=8-1&keywords=oliver+j+r+cooper
Childhood: Is Your Childhood Sabotaging Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Childhood-Your-Sabotaging-Life/dp/1502703718/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1425651244&sr=1-1
A Dialogue With The Heart - Part Two: A Collection Of Poems And Dialogues From The Heart
http://www.amazon.com/Dialogue-Heart-Collection-Poems-Dialogues/dp/1505633125/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_5?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1425651244&sr=1-5
Toxic Shame: Is It Defining Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Shame-Defining-Your-Life/dp/1505315565/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1425651244&sr=1-3
Abandonment: Is The Fear Of Abandonment Controlling Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Abandonment-Fear-Controlling-Your-Life/dp/1508714800/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_5?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1430830507&sr=1-5
Child Abuse: Were You Abused As A Child?
http://www.amazon.com/Child-Abuse-Were-You-Abused/dp/1518693946/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_7?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1453242180&sr=1-7
A Dialogue With The Spirit: A Collection Of Poems And Dialogues To Help You Grieve The Loss Of A Loved One
http://www.amazon.com/Dialogue-Spirit-Collection-Dialogues-Grieve/dp/1515329968/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_8?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1453242180&sr=1-8
Trapped Grief: Is Trapped Grief Sabotaging Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Trapped-Grief-Sabotaging-Your-Life/dp/1512129127?ie=UTF8&qid=1464281033&ref_=tmm_pap_swatch_0&sr=1-1
Why Does He Behave That Way? Why Do I behave This Way?
https://www.amazon.com/Does-Behave-That-behave-This/dp/1530559960?ie=UTF8&qid=1466289110&ref_=la_B00QC5LARE_1_10&s=books&sr=1-10
Boundaries: Are You Boundaryless?
https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Boundaryless-Oliver-JR-Cooper/dp/1535324740/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_6?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1474841586&sr=1-6
Inner Child - Is Your Inner Child Controlling Your Life?
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1537603396/ref=sr_1_6?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1476613494&sr=1-6
Childhood Trauma - Is Your Life Being Defined By childhood Trauma?
https://www.amazon.com/Childhood-Trauma-Your-Being-Defined/dp/154234462X/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_13?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1484857007&sr=1-13&refinements=p_82%3AB00QC5LARE
People Pleasing - People Pleasing Is Your Need To Please Others Sabotaging Your Life?
https://www.amazon.com/People-Pleasing-Please-Others-Sabotaging/dp/1544169027/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1490611623&sr=1-11
Loyalty - Is Your Need To Be Loyal Sabotaging Your Life?
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1973796198/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1502650385&sr=1-1&keywords=Loyalty%3A+Is+Your+Need+To+Be+Loyal+Sabotaging+Your+Life%3F
Trauma – Is Trauma Sabotaging Your Life?
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1975893441/ref=sr_1_9?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1506002072&sr=1-9&keywords=oliver+jr+cooper
Inner Child - How To Heal Your Inner Child
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1721077871/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i1
Self-Awareness: How To Develop Self-Awareness
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1726060586/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i4
Purpose: How To Find Your Purpose
https://www.amazon.com/Purpose-How-Find-Your/dp/1091023573/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1568814745&sr=8-16
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Porn: Does Porn Have A Negative Effect On Men And Women?
If someone wanted to relieve themselves sexually in the past, they may have had a magazine or a paper to look through. This probably would have meant that at least one person would have seen them buy it. There is the chance that this was not something that bothered them, or it might not have fazed them. And once they were no longer interested in a magazine/paper, they would need to go through the whole process again. It’s All Changed
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Critical Thinking: Is It A Surprise That Some Women Who Were Abused As Children End Up As Porn Stars?
Recently, a porn star committed suicide, and this was said to be due to the abuse that she received online. Based on this, it could be said that the people who abused her online were responsible for her death. The Trolls This is then an example of what can happen when someone is treated badly on social media. What this shows is that the saying, ‘sticks and stone may break my bones, but words will never hurt me‘, is not completely true.
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Celebrities: Are Some Celebrities Hypocrites?
When it comes to a famous actor or singer, for instance, it could be said that their purpose is either to act or to sing. This is then no different to how a plumber or an electrician, for instance, is going to have their own purpose. Now, this is not to say that a singer or an actor won’t do anything else in life, as they are bound to have other interests. And the same can be said if someone is a plumber or an electrician. One Difference
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Emotional Expression: Can The Fear Of Abandonment Stop Someone From Expressing How They Feel?
If someone wanted to explain something to another person, there are a number of ways for them to do so. It could be said that the most important thing will be for them to use words, as this will allow them to be understood. In addition to this, they can use their body and their emotions. Now, these two parts are clearly not essential, but what they will do is bring what they have to say to life. A Big Difference
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Self-Image: Do People Become Irrelevant When They Get Older?
In today’s world, there is often more attention is given to people who are at the beginning of their life than there is to those who are going towards the end of it. Yet, it might be more accurate to say that people are often overlooked before they even get to this stage. Youth What this partly shows is how much attention is given to all that is new, and when something is old (or older), it can be seen as having no value. This is not only something that applies to people; it also applies to material objects.
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Family Constellations: Why Would Someone Be Drawn To Family Constellation Therapy?
When someone’s life is not going as they would like it to go, there are a number of things that they can do. And while some of these things will allow them to move forward, there are going to be others that won’t. Escapism One could be drawn to things that will allow them to take their pain away, at least momentarily. This could mean that they will end up drinking something whenever they start to experience pain, or they may have more than one thing to take their pain away.
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Therapy: Why Do Some Therapists Want To Save Others?
In today’s world, there are so many things that one can do, and this can cause them to be overwhelmed. This is why it is not always a ‘good’ thing for one to have more things to choose from. Having more choice can make it even harder for one to know what they want to do; whereas if they only had a certain amount of choices, it could be far easier for them to decide. However, if one was to go back in time, they may come into contact with people who felt restricted by the choices that were available. Another Outlook
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Social Media: Why Do Some People Only Express How They Feel When They Use Social Media?
If one was to use social media, they are likely to find that some of their ‘friends’ come across differently to how they do in the real world. This could mean that someone they know will act shy offline but when they are online, they could come across as being outgoing. Another Experience Along with this, one could notice that some of their friends don’t hold back when it comes to sharing their views online. If this was how they behaved in the real world, it might not stand out.
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Relationships: Does Someone Need To Warn Others If They Have Been With Someone Who Is Abusive?
When someone’s relationship comes to an end, they can have to the need to carry on with their life. There is then going to be no reason for them to spend time talking about the person they were with. The Reason If this is because it ended badly, it will be normal for them to want to put the past behind them. And if they were to spend time talking about the other person, it would have a negative effect on their well-being.
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Victim Mentality: Do Some People Only Know Who They Are When They Act Like A Victim?
While there are some people who feel like a victim from time to time, there are others who pretty much always feel this way. When one can relate to the former, it is unlikely to be something that will have an effect on how they see themselves. Momentary But if it does have an effect on how they see themselves, there is the chance that this won’t be something that will last for very long. For example, something could take place in their life and then they could end up feeling as though the world is against them.
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“He Is A Great Teacher!”
A number of years ago, I got together with a friend and he spoke about a video that he wanted to make on domestic violence. This was one of many that he was looking to put together. I think that the video he made after this was on knife crime, with the next one being about the masks that we wear. This was someone who had a good understanding of this area, so it wasn’t as though he desperately needed my input for this video. The Focus
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Needs: Is It Important For Someone To Be Comfortable With Their Needs When They Are Sensitive?
When someone has the tendency to please others, it is likely to be a sign that they don’t feel comfortable with their own needs. It is then not going to matter that they are a separate human being, as their life won’t be a reflection of who they are. Point of Focus Their day-to-day life is typically going to revolve around fulfilling other people’s needs, and this can be what feels comfortable. Even so, this doesn’t mean that they won’t get annoyed with what is taking place.
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''We repress parts of ourselves and we then project those parts out into the world and in turn, become the victims of our own projections'' - Oliver JR Cooper ''Friends are a gift and not a right'' - Oliver JR Cooper ‘‘Whether our life will rise or fall will depend on the quality of our relationship with ourself and as an extension of that - our relationships with others'' - Oliver JR Cooper ''In a dysfunctional family, the word 'family' is often seen as a license for abuse'' - Oliver J R Cooper ‘’Trying to achieve perfection is a bit like trying to get to the end of a rainbow, not only is it impossible, it also doesn’t exist '' - Oliver JR Cooper ‘It is easier to hate another, than to look at what we hate about ourselves’ - Oliver JR Cooper ''How emotionally healthy someone is can be known through how functional their relationships are '' - Oliver JR Cooper ''Whereas the mind has ideas about life, the body is life. There is no separation when it comes to the body and life’’ - Oliver JR Cooper
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