Zita Fekete
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Emotional Manipulation Expert
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- Psychodynamic Therapy -
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- Psychotherapist, Counselor
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- Sound Soul Counseling Services
If you feel entrapped in a controlling relationship, if you are confused, embarrassed and angry…
Maybe you wonder what’s wrong with you. Deep inside, you truly think something is…
If you do lots of things just to avoid being ashamed and feeling guilty:
- Maybe nothing is wrong with you!
- Maybe you are stuck in a Manipulative Relationship.
You might be desperate and think you have to be fixed. At least your partner said so…
Emotional Manipulation is an unfair communication process in which one of the partners gets the other one doing what s/he doesn’t want to by inducing guilt, shame and anxiety. On the surface everything seems to be fine, even loving and caring. However, hidden below the surface the manipulator imposes those negative feelings in order to control the other’s actions.
Once in a while every one of us inadvertently falls in the destructive trap. In some cases, there are couples for whom this is the long term pattern. In these situations, those destructive feelings undermine Self-Esteem and confidence. The controlled partner feels powerless, helpless and hopeless.
There is help and hope available!
We cannot change the manipulator, but we can change our reaction to the manipulation and that changes the entire process.
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MY CREDENTIALS
Licenced Mental Health Counselor WA
Private Practice
Ph.D ABD in Ethology
University of Eötvös Lóránt, Budapest
Communication betwee
Blinds and thier guide Dog
MA in Psychology
University of Eötvös Lóránt, Budapest
Supervisor for Social Workers
Family Centrum IX District Budapest
C.G.Jung Theoretical Seminar
Hungarian Complex Psychotherapy Association
Volunteer Field Study Kenya
Daily Activity Pattern of Waterbuck
Psychotherapist
St Rókus Hospital Budapest
"Drog Stop"
Telephone Counselor
Educator, Foster Home
Budapest, Hungary
BA Music Teacher
Pécs, Hungary
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I should have said “NO” but I couldn’t. Have I been manipulated? - What is Emotional Manipulation and how does it work?
How many times have I felt that way and how often have I heard this sigh coming from others before I began to deal with Emotional Manipulation? Weeding out manipulative attempts from straightforward communication or rightful influence is not always an easy ride. Cloud of negative emotions Before I recognize my emotions, I feel my heart pounding and my breathing becomes labored. – Your reaction might be different: lump in the throat, cramp in the stomach, tension in a certain muscle group: listen to your body, and recognize what sign means manipulation danger for you!
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6 Warning Signs of a Manipulative Relationship
At my most recent check up, a pretty nurse prepared me for the visit. Her fine face was decorated by a dark circle encompassing her eye – almost surely caused by the viscous hand of her “loved one”. She was obviously deep in her ruins but was valiantly pretending everything’s all right. I was inclined to give her a warm embrace and tell her how much I am sorry about what had happened to her.
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Magic of Dreams
‘…I was by the cosmetics, standing before the mirror and trying to pull off a tiny piece of dead skin from my face. Instead of coming off, it pulled more skin with it. I wanted to get rid of them too, which pulled even more… and a bigger piece, one after another and it just wouldn’t stop. Slowly my naked face stared back at me with the pure muscles exposed without any layer of skin remaining. A cosmetician appeared behind me and nonchalantly stated: You will recover soon...’
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Are we living for working or are we working for living
As a last argument in a debate, my best friend asked her husband: - “Are we living for working or are we working for living?” You can guess; the argument was about how much time they spend with working and how much they have left for the family. How many of us are in the same situation? The economy is quite challenging lately, we want to maintain, even flourish our businesses, no matter if they are currently small or large. We try everything what we can to make it happen; but for what price?
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What to do with relative's nit picking during Holidays?
Stop it! I don’t like it! The holidays are rapidly approaching. We are all getting more excited as well as more afraid: what will my mother, father, aunty, or uncle do or say in the family gathering? What if they criticize my new flat, hair, boyfriend, job or cooking? What if they remind me all over again about my childhood mistakes? What if they question all my current decisions? Will we end up quarreling as we did last time? How can they find my most sensitive spots? How could I possibly stop them?
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The "One and Only" does exist?
The “One and Only” does exist? In my opinion, this concept is the product of western civilization which assumes that you simply have to find your “true love”, progress your way through to the wedding ceremony; then you are primed to live “Happily Ever After”. The main emphasis is on the choice: you choose “The Right One”, later in the courtship you might be confronted with complications, but undoubtedly everything will quickly turn into roses at the “I do.”
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Zita Fekete
"When an inner situation is not made conscious, it appears outside as fate." - C.G. Jung
"Man needs difficulties; they are necessary for health." - C.G. Jung
"We cannot change anything until we accept it. Condemnation does not liberate, it oppresses." - C.G. Jung
"Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness. It is far better take things as they come along with patience and equanimity." - C.G. Jung
"Where love rules, there is no will to power; where power predominates, there love is lacking. The one is the shadow of the other." - C.G. Jung
"Neurosis is always a substitute for legitimate suffering." - C.G. Jung
"There is no coming to consciousness without pain." - C.G. Jung
"It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye." - Antoine de Saint-Exupery
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