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Valentine’s Day Advice: Expecting Your Partner to Read Your Mind Might Sabotage Your Relationships

A close relationship is something we all desire: to feel we are “one” with our partner; that we know each other as well as knowing ourselves; that we can communicate without words, like with a telepathic connection. But if we expect this to be the rule – rather than the exception - we might harm our relationships. In this sense Valentine’s Day – as much as it connotes love – might be a “dangerous” and “risky” day for lovers who expect too much. EXPECTING YOUR PARTNER TO READ YOUR MIND IS HARMFUL TO THE RELATIONSHIP

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Relationship Advice

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Your Attitude to Love, Dating and Relationships is Crucial in Your Ability to Develop a Successful Intimacy

The attitude you have while going on dates is crucial to your succeeding or failing to extend a date to a meaningful relationship. The more you take the time to reflect upon your attitude this holiday season and realize whether it sabotages you or not, the more you can change and adopt a healthy one, constructive to finding a satisfying bond next year. YOUR PERCEPTION OF RELATIONSHIPS

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Relationship Advice

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Don’t Let “The Fear of Being Alone” Drive You to Stay in an Unsatisfying Relationship

Staying in an unsatisfying relationship might be driven by many fears, one of which is THE FEAR OF BEING ALONE.You convince yourself that it is better to have a partner and be in a relationship, albeit not a satisfying one, rather than being alone. The problem is that you the give up on your quality of life and hinders any possibility of finding a better intimacy. EXCUSES AND RATIONALIZATIONS TO STAYING IN AN UNSATISFYING RELATIONSHIP When you stay in such an unsatisfying relationship and are afraid to make a change, you look for excuses and rationalizations to justify yourself:

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Relationship Advice

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Don’t Let Your Anger Sabotage Your Relationships: Allow Yourself to Express it!

Anger is a natural emotion. However, there are those who, for one reason or another, don’t allow themselves to express it. By doing so they might harm their relationships. If you are a person who doesn’t express anger, you may want to understand why you don’t and teach yourself to express it when and if appropriate in your relationships. Are you a person who seldom expresses anger towards your partners? Do you often agree with whatever they want or do? Does it happen that when you disagree, you tend NOT to say so, in order to minimize conflicts?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You a Single Mother In Search for a Partner? Awareness is Vital to Your Success

Introduction Single mothers who wish to find a partner with whom to develop a serious and successful relationship need to be aware of their expectations and needs and share these with the prospective partner. If he will do likewise they increase the likelihood of becoming able to develop and nurture a satisfying intimacy. **

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

The Holidays are a Perfect Time to Reflect and Contemplate How to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

Have you ever learned in school how to develop a successful relationship? Have your parents ever given you a good example? And, most of all: what makes you think you know how to succeed in an intimate relationship? Well, if you find yourself failing time and again, you know the answer: you don’t know. The question then becomes: how can you learn to develop a successful relationship? It isn’t easy to develop a successful intimate relationship – but it IS possible!

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t You At Times Wish that Your Relationship with Your Partner Will be as Good as the One You Have with Your Friend?

Have you ever wished that your relationship with your partner will be at a similar level of friendship like the one you have with your closest friend? That with him you would be able to talk about everything in the open, like really two soul-mates? Hellas, this is often not the case. And when you attempt to bring your relationship with him to such a level (after all, what is intimacy if not just that?) you are often being rejected for your attempts and “ideas”.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t Sacrifice Yourself for a Partner and a Relationship: It Will Only Cause You Harm

You will be amazed to realize what people do for love. Some sacrifice themselves on the “altar of a relationship”, some are involved with dangerous and stupid “adventures”. But whatever others do, what is important is that you know yourself and know what you are willing, or unwilling, to do “for love”. **

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

When Is It About YOU and When Is It About HIM: Don’t Let Your Fears & Neediness Hurt You

He didn’t call or sent you an sms after the date and you take it personally. You think it’s because of you; that he didn’t like you; that he was not attracted to you; that he didn’t enjoy your company, that he might have detected your insecurity and shied away from it; that he might have noticed you haven’t had any relationship for a long time and decided it is too risky to try anything with you. In short, you feel you have sabotaged it once again! You have so many reasons to take it personally. To feel that you have sabotaged your chances once again!

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Stop Sabotaging Yourself in Search for Love and Intimacy: Learn What You Need to Change – and Succeed!

A sad story that often repeats itself regarding one’s search for love and intimacy Her need for attention and appreciation, to be loved and be told how “great” she is has driven her to harm her intimate relationship time and again. She expected too much from her partner; she demanded that he says such and such about her; she was impatient for him to declare his love for her. Her relationships with her partners often ended brutally. As much as it is a sad story, it isn’t actually a “story” but a recurring situation which happens frequently and affects many.

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Relationship Advice

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How to Finally Succeed with Intimacy: Make Sure You Change What Needs a Change Before You Begin a New Relationship

As long as you don’t change whatever it is that you need to change regarding your attitudes about relationships and/or your behaviors with your partners, you will probably end up with similar problems with new partners. The reason being – you always bring yourself into the new relationship. This might sound odd, but the fact is, that you always carry yourself into the new relationship, don’t you?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Stuck in an Unsatisfying Intimate Relationship? Here are 3 Routes for you to Consider

The increasing number of separations and divorce is an indication that many are not satisfied with their relationships. Yet, those who stay in an unsatisfying relationship might have reasons for doing so. Whatever the reasons are, there are at least 3 routes to making a change. Reasons for staying in an unsatisfying relationship 1. Making a change might be very stressful. You know what you now have, but don’t know what you’ll have if and when you separate.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Reflecting on Your Intimate Relationship & Your On-going Issues with Your Partner Can Help & Improve Your Bond

Sometimes, as you wonder about your relationship with your partner, you might wonder how it goes with others’ relationships: Are your issues similar to theirs? How do others combat, struggle with and solve their problems? How happy others are? How often do they make love – and whether whatever you are going through with your own partner is “normal”, is “o.k.”, and acceptable.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Empower Yourself to Find a Suitable Partner with Whom to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

When you see a couple holding hands, does it make you feel unhappy? At times, whether you are single or in an unsatisfying relationship, you feel unhappy when you see others who seem happy in their relationships. You see couples holding hands, even walk embraced, and this makes you think you are the only one in the world who is not happy, who does not have a good intimacy or who is alone.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

If You Are Single and Dating Looking for a Satisfying Intimate Relationship, You Should Learn the Healing Power of Self-Reflection

If you are among those who dream about finding “the one and only”; “the perfect match”; “the knight on the white horse” - you probably have developed a host of fantasies and hopes about how this person will look like; will be like; will behave like, love and treat you. And you probably have imagined, time and again, how your first meeting with this person will look like; will be like: the first kiss; the first eye contact; the first sentence each one of you will utter. And the first – and certain – “connection” the two of you will feel towards one another.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Treating Each New Date as a Beginner Can Help You Extend a Date Into a Meaningful Relationship

There are those who are “proud” about dating tens if not hundreds of others. They think is shows how “great” they are; how “in demand” they are. Felling “hot” about themselves they turn dating into a game, competing with themselves (as well as with others) about how many dates they will go on; how many people they will meet on a weekly, monthly and yearly basis. But then, the “end-result” is often no-relationship, no true intimacy, no long-term serious and meaningful bond.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Having a Partner & Being in an Intimate Relationship: Does it Bring More Happiness?

Is there a correlation between having a partner and being happy? Some believe that the “trick” to being happy is to have a relationship, as if it will solve all problems: depression, sadness, low self-esteem and so on. Having a relationship – so they believe – will make them satisfied and content. Those thinking that way often attempt various ways in order to find a partner. As if having one will alleviate all their problems. Unfortunately, things don’t work that way. The reasons are many:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Mindfulness, Self-Awareness & Intimacy: How to Become Empowered to Develop a Successful Relationship

Introduction When you get up the courage and the motivation to go through the process of mindfulness, observe, pay attention, become aware and accept what you see, the more self-understanding and personal-growth you gain, and the more empowered you become to develop a successful intimate relationship. ** Mindfulness and Intimate Relationships Mindfulness means: you pay attention to and are aware of whatever happens within you regarding your life and relationships.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

What is “A Complete Relationship”? One which is Based on “Positive” & “Negative”. Coming to Terms with is Helps the Intimacy

Sometimes in relationships you want to have only the half – the “good” half, not the “bad”; the “positive”, not the “negative”; the “easy”, not the “difficult”. But “a complete relationship” is based on both the “good”, and the “bad”, the “positive” as well as the “negative”. And when you learn to accommodate both and cope with both you can then develop a satisfying intimacy with your partner.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Change from Being Single & Alone to Having a Satisfying Intimate Relationship

Introduction If you are without a relationship for a long time now, you might consider yourself “a loneliness expert”. Indeed, such an option is always available. But before you decide to adapt such an “expertise” you can choose another option: to look inwards, find out things about yourself you might not have known until now, make the necessary changes which will enable you, with your renewed motivation, persistency and dedication, to “go out there” and eventually find a partner with whom to develop a successful relationship. **

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Letting Go of an Unsatisfying Intimate Relationship: Why Many Don’t Have the Courage for & why it is Healthy and Important

At times, letting go is very healthy. Yet there are many who don’t have the courage to let go, and they resort to various reasons and justifications to explain – to themselves and to others – why they stay stuck in a bad relationship. While staying they might be “obsessed” about their partner, constantly lingering what to do, whether to stay or leave, what to expect, how to improve the relationship – if at all possible, trying to figure out what they have done wrong, feeling shame, pain and frustration. Why many don’t let go of a bad relationship?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Should You Stay or Should You Leave an Unsatisfying Intimate Relationship?

Introduction Whether you decide to stay in an unsatisfying intimate relationship or leave is up to you. But you can make a proper decision only when you are aware of your fears and needs, of what might keep you hanging on to a partner which is not for you, in a relationship which is not healthy and satisfying. Only then you become able to make a conscious decision one way or another. **

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Saying YES When You Rather Say NO Harms the Relationship. Make a Change and Stop Sabotaging Your Intimacy

Learning to say “No” is an important step forward in improving your quality of life and relationships. Often, those who can’t say “No” within a relationship (or, for that matter, with new dates even before a relationship has been formalized) are often those who can’t say “No” in other situations in their lives. Saying YES when you rather say NO harms your relationships. The only effective way to begin saying “No” is to begin saying it, and to stand by what you say. Why could she never learn?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Be Your Own Relationships’ Coach and Become Empowered to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

Engaging coaches in your personal and professional life has become a trend: more and more seek the advice and services of one coach or another, be it for lack of time, lack of experience, inability to make the right choices by yourself or just a symbol of status (just like having a personal psychologist, lawyer and accountant). But when it comes to relationships – whether you have a partner and are dissatisfied or are looking for a partner - do you really need a personal coach? Does the coach know something you don’t? Can the coach really help you in ways you cannot help yourself?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Can Your Dreams about a Wonderful Intimate Relationship Materialize?

It is wonderful to dream and fantasize about a wonderful relationship with a wonderful person. Who wouldn’t want to be involved with a great intimacy? But often, when you meet someone, even if at the beginning of the relationship you believe you have indeed seen your dream come true, slowly but surely you begin to realize this is not the case. Reality is different. At the beginning you might try to ignore this fact, to claim that what you notice is only temporary and to hope that, eventually, all will go smoothly as per your dream.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t Try to Change Your Partner. Change YOURSELF Instead! This Can Help Your Relationship

Men and women alike often try to change their partners. They believe that “only when” their partners will think, feel, react and behave the way they themselves do – the relationship will be satisfying. But how often does it happen that just because they try to change their partners their relationship is getting worst and worst? Just because they think they know better how their partners “should be, think, feel and behave” they find themselves in endless conflicts and quarrels? Why would anyone want to change his/her partner?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Have any Regrets about Your Relationships? Why not Make the Necessary Changes NOW – and Succeed?

Introduction The Top Five Regrets outlined here as related to a successful intimate relationship can help you consider how you “do” you own relationships. They can motivate you to think upon and reflect whether you allow yourself to be “who you are” in a relationship – or not; whether you allow yourself to express yourself or not; whether you are true to yourself or not. Becoming aware of the ways you approach relationships and interact with your partner is a key to being able to develop and maintain a truly satisfying intimacy. **

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Waking-up to Face Reality is the Road to Succeed at Developing a Long-lasting, Satisfying intimacy

There are those who, regardless of how many relationships they have attempted to develop with different partners have nonetheless failed time and again. Yet, they keep trying, hoping that “next time things will be different”. As much as hope is a motivating force to keep trying, there isn’t actually a good reason to believe that if they have constantly failed until now they will succeed in the future.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Do You Perceive Yourself to be a “Special” Person, therefore Not Succeeding at Having an Intimate Relationship?

If you are unsuccessful in developing an intimate relationship you might – like many others - perceive yourself as being “particular” – hereby justifying to yourself the fact that you are unsuccessful. But the fact of the matter is, “particular” are those who are willing to develop Self-Awareness, figure out how they have harmed their attempts at relationships until now and take the necessary steps to change. What does “particular” mean?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Stop Deceiving Yourself about Intimacy: Facing Reality will Lead You to a Successful Relationship

Introduction There are those who, regardless of how many relationships they have attempted to develop, are failing time and again. Waking-up to face reality is not easy. But it is only when they become willing to look inwards; acknowledge that something must be wrong with the way they approach relationships that they can make the necessary changes leading to success. **

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Single & Dating? Use New Year to Lea 5 Steps to Finding a Partner and Developing a Satisfying Relationship

There is no time like New Year to contemplate your successes and failures regarding intimate relationships. If you find you long to have a partner with whom to develop true intimacy and haven’t succeeded until now, why not use New Year as a time to look inwards and see, once and for all, what stands in your way and what you need to do in order to find love and a true intimacy?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

“Falling in Love” or Pure Neediness? The Difference Might Determine the Future of the Relationship

Introduction Can a person driven by a bottomless need for love, causing her relationships fail time and again, get up the courage to look inwards, become aware of where this need comes from, realize the disastrous effect it has on her relationships and take the necessary steps to conquer it? **

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How Many Dates Should You Go On Before Settling Down to Develop a Serious Relationship?

Recently I came across the following Tweet: “Just what the doctor ordered: date 100 men without getting serious with anyone”. This made me thinking: for what purpose would anyone try to date 100 men (or, for that matter, women) without getting serious with anyone? How much can one learn about himself (or herself) by doing so? And how much can one get hurt – or hurt others – by so doing?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Does Your Success with Dating Make You Spin Your Head? Know When to Stop & Develop a Serious Relationship

Introduction “Enjoying life” and “winning” date after date might give you a good feeling – a boost to your ego, to your sexual drive, to your availability. But don’t let it distract you from your initial goal of finding a partner with whom to develop a truly intimate relationship. Knowing and keeping the balance; knowing when to get out of the dating scene and settling down is important. **

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Dating Someone who is NOT for You? Why Won’t You Find and Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship?

Introduction If you find yourself time and again with a partner who seems to “run away from you”, but nonetheless you hang-on to this “partner”, albeit the pain it causes you, you are not alone. Many behave similarly. Still, it is YOUR life. Therefore, when you get up the courage to understand what drives you to behave the way you do and you work on whatever issues you walk around with, you become able to find and develop a healthy and satisfying intimacy. **

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Does Your Low Self-esteem Stand in Your Way from Developing a Healthy Intimate Relationship?

A low self-esteem might push you to impress your dates and “potential others” by being “too nice”, “too accommodating”, “too easygoing” and so on, whether when you post your profile on social media or when you meet new people face-to-face. Even though you might be going on endless dates, as long as you don’t work on your self-esteem you will fail time and again.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Can You Help a Friend of Yours who Always “Falls” for the Wrong Man?

It is very likely that you have a friend who always “falls” for the wrong guy. Everybody sees it, except her. You feel sorry for her; you wish you can help her. You even try to show her the “facts”, explain to her how she hurts herself; “predict” the miserable future she’ll have. After all, she has been falling for the wrong man time and again… But all in vain: she is sure that “this time it won’t happen!”; that “you don’t know what you’re talking about”; that “you don’t know him at all”; that “I feel hurt that you don’t trust my judgement”, and so on and so forth.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Why Do You Fall Time & Again for Prospective Partners whom You Should Have Never Dated?

You might have heard the following from your friend: “Have I known it ahead of time, I wouldn’t even begun going out with him” . The question is: was it possible for her to know it ahead of time? And the answer is: it depends. It depends on signs and hints she might have noticed. On her intuition. And on her prior experiences. The problem is that there are those who never learn. Neither from mistakes nor from experiences.

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Relationship Advice

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Are You Willing to Receive Feedback from Others in order to Improve Your Success with Intimate Relationships?

A good friend of mine is writing a novel. But he resists getting any feedback from anyone: “Feedback?”- he says – “Anyone knows better tha I how I should write my book? No way!” Success at writing a best-seller Just like my friend, so millions of people fantasize about writing and publishing a best-seller. Some even quit their job in order to devote themselves to writing, hoping that when and if their book will sell they will become reach and famous.

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Relationship Advice

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Don’t Seek Short-Cuts to Finding a Partner with Whom to Develop an Intimate Relationship: They Might Fail You!

Time is money. For one reason or another this phrase has taken precedence in many aspects of our daily life: on CNN, for example, you often hear the anchor saying to an interviewer: “quickly…”; or “please answer the final last question in one sentence”. Twitter forces you to send messages with no more than 140 characters. Various internet sites accept articles which include no more than a limited amount of words. And in the dating scene you have probably become familiar with “speed dating”, which allows you to meet someone for 3 minutes and move on to the next person.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Single & Dating Yet Failing to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship? Learn What Stands in Your Way

Many singles are trying various ways to find a partner with whom to develop a satisfying intimate relationship: enroll on dating sites, seek the help of a “dating coach”, attend workshops on the subject, read books on relationships and seek relationship advice in different jou als and internet sites. Yet, may are unsuccessful in seeing their dream of a satisfying relationship comes true. Why is it so? Why do many, in spite of their longing to have a partner and develop a successful intimate relationship, find themselves, time and again, unhappy and disappointed, or simply alone?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Have You Ever Thought about Making an Agreement with YOURSELF in Order to Succeed with Your Intimate Relationship?

It is customary these days for partners to institute a prenuptial agreement or, while dating, a “relationship agreement” - mutually agreeing on the “relationships terms and conditions”: for example, whether the partners commit to meet once or twice a week; whether they commit to spend a night or two together; and so on and so forth.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Healing after a Failed Relationship: Learn how Self-Awareness Enables You to Heal & to Move Forward

If you have a number of failed relationships behind you, it is very likely that you feel wounded, depressed, despaired and lonely. In order to become empowered to develop a healthy and satisfying relationship you first need to heal these wounds. This is possible when you become aware of what it is that makes you fail in the first place.

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Relationship Advice

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Do You Know What Stands in Your Way from Developing a Successful Intimate Relationship?

You might be failing in your relationships for a variety of reasons. But as long as you are not aware of what the true reason is, you will not know what you need to change. Consequently you will keep failing in your relationships. Becoming aware of what stands in your way is therefore vital to your ability to change what needs change and become able to develop a successful intimacy. It is likely that when your relationships fail you either don’t know what has caused the failure, blame your partner, or resort to one thousand and one excuses to justify it to yourself (and to others).

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Relationship Advice

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Do You Choose Your Partner(s) or They Choose You? This Can Make a Big Difference in Your Relationship’s Success

Although it might NOT be apparent, there is a big difference whether you go out with someone YOU have decided to go out with or with someone who has chosen you. The first usually happens when you are empowered to be yourself and feel safe with being alone. The second often occurs when you have a low self-esteem; are desperate to have a relationship and willing to go out with whoever shows interest in you.

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Relationship Advice

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How do Stinginess, Jealousy & Unfaithfulness & the Need for Control Harm Your Relationships?

Denying traits, emotions and behaviors and projecting them onto your partner sabotages your relationships. As long as you are not aware of this being the case you will continue harm your relationships time and again. Becoming aware is therefore the key to change. Here are three examples of the damage denials and projections cause to the relationship. Meanness & stinginess Example

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Needing Love & Being Desperate and Dependent Might Kill Your Relationships

Introduction If you are driven by neediness and dependency you might be “pushed” into unhealthy, even abusive relationships. These might bring uncomfortable, terrible consequences in terms of depression, feelings of worthlessness and of loneliness. Becoming aware of your needs and conquering them will enable you to find and develop a satisfying and healthy intimacy. **r

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Relationship Advice

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Be Aware of Your Projections: They Might Harm Your Intimate Relationships

INTRODUCTION As long as you project your own traits, emotions and behaviors onto your partner, accusing him/her of owning these, rather than accepting them as part of you, you are harming the relationship. Becoming aware of your projections and taking responsibility for all your traits, emotions and behaviors are vital for your ability to develop and maintain a successful intimacy. PROJECTIONS HARM RELATIONSHIPS

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Relationship Advice

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Predict Your Success or Failure with Relationships – and Make the Best to Succeed!

Serious researchers are looking for ways to predict and identify future criminals. Research has shown that criminals serving time for violent acts have already shown violent tendencies in elementary school. By the same token, studies comparing introverts and extroverts have found that such tendencies are already settled in the mother’s womb. Following in the line of such research, the question therefore is: Can you predict your success or failure with relationships based on your past experiences? IT IS POSSIBLE TO PREDICT FUTURE BEHAVIORS?

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Relationship Advice

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Does Your Anxiety Drive You to Sabotage Your Relationships? Learn to De-activate its Power

YOUR ANXIETY WORKS AGAINST YOU! If you have been wishing for quite some time now to have a stable, successful, satisfying relationship but are finding yourself time and again with the wrong partners and in unsatisfying relationships, what does it mean? Could it really be that “all these men” or “all these women” are no good?

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Relationship Advice

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