“What to Do When We Feel Angry with Someone for Being Sick”
A young lady came to me who has gone through a hard time with her husband having cancer and she is very angry. Here is what I told her. Sometimes loved ones try to leave us, but we are so busy with what we need to do in order to keep our loved one well that we become hyper-vigilant and never feel our feelings. This is very common. Later all those feelings become anxiety and stress which leads to our inability to sleep, enjoy life, and be happy. We are always waiting for the next thing to happen… because we were always listening for our loved one in case they need us in some way.