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A typical problem for friends of mine is their assumption that you have to lose 50 pounds and/or be financially secure prior to being able to attract long-standing love. This is of course a myth.
Do you know what your money vibe is? Here's the absolutely easiest way to tell what your vibrational equivalent to money is. Take a look at your bank account. What's your present life experience with money? Your bank account will tell you every time.
I hear from many people who voice problems relating to the low economy. The fact is I hear from subscribers who are anxious, have money problems and express feeling quite vulneralbe. Well I'm here to tell you, practicing Law of Attraction tools has nothing to do with sugar coating the issues. Just because practicing the Law of Attraction does involve visualizing your possible future, it doesn't mean you shouldn't be in tune with how you feel right now. Understanding where your mindset is and where your feelings are at this very moment in your life is the first step towards self-actualizing.
The intention for the helpful hints and knowledge is that you will actually attain a new insight and and opening for yourself.
Last year was a time of struggle and suffering for many people. I know I'm one of them. People lots their jobs, their family, their hope. It was very hard to escape the hardships caused by the crappy economy. The hope I've seen for a change this year is palpable. It would seem people are looking for the sun as a storm dissipates. That's not to say that the dramas and traumas of news events and daily living have necessarily changed. It's to say that my focus on them has lightened up.
My husband and I just arrived back from a Miracle Caribbean Cruise. Why the miracle part? Well, it was one hundred percent free and it just came out of nowhere and came into our laps. Not just that, but a bunch of the bigger names in the Self-Improvement world were on it. You may have heard about the Bob Proctor Life Success cruise.
What's your general mood at the start of another day? How about at the end of the day?
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach, writes...
<object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/bfFEhZO9rGQ&hl=en&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/bfFEhZO9rGQ&hl=en&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object> Helen from Ohio asked me about letting herself forgive her Ex so she could move on with her life.
Desire is both healthy and natural. The most natural thing we can do is to have a desire. Desire is the impulse and intention that propels the entire Universe. Quantum Physics and Spiritual teachers are all telling us that the nature of the Universe and the nature of God is ever expanding, boundless. And the nature of God is boundless in love, creation, freedom, joy, compassion and so on.
What do I mean by Higher Mind Functioning? The only way you can really categorize something is to place it within a larger framework of ideas. If there's higher mind functioning, what would it mean to be functioning from a lower state? Thoughts from a "lower mind" can often be interpreted literally. These are thoughts pertaining to surviving a dangerous situation, and these thoughts usually come from a part of the brain that lies farther away from your frontal lobe.
Everything is energy. Even medical science measures the electrical impulses in our cells with EKGs. Stress is energy. Albeit negative energy. Stress is the experience we encounter when the brain sends out electrical signals that lead to an emotion (perhaps anxiety, depression, or anger), a perception, or a behavior that is not appropriate for the current situation. By not appropriate I mean “the fight or flight mechanism is triggered and there's no saber-toothed tiger after you. Nobody is pointing a gun to your head." But we run those chemicals anyway.
Have you ever noticed, at times life seems to throw us a fast curve ball? Something unexpected and often undesirable pops up. This unexpected situation interrupts the status quo and can create tension. Depending on the tools we have in our emotional tool box, how we handle these upsets can range from mildly annoying to down right devastating. We might refer to these life interruptions as contrast. Contrast, the experience of something that is strikingly unlike what we're accustomed to. And that's life. Contrast happens.
If you aren't getting what you have been wanting for a long time, you probably have some outdated programs that were instilled in us from when we're kids and collective unconscious that runs in the background. Your mind doesn't permit you to have your desires realized because of the older beliefs that were initially dominant in your mind as you were a child. <object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/GBUlHBhyoEY&hl=en_US&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed
Few of us go around truly knowing how we feel in every moment. Everyone has understand functioning on automatic pilot and going through the motions of life. Actually, putting your efforts on auto-pilot can turn out very useful. Especially if it involves doing a simple project such as cleaning the yard or making dinner. When you get into the habit of a repetitive routine, the thing almost becomes a meditation. Given you are not rehashing a complaint or negative thought around in your thoughts, becoming very present with a repetitious task can be incredibly soothing and centering.
What about your "other" relationships? I mean, the ones with your siblings, your boss, your mother, or teenage step-son. What about your connection with your money, your body, your Surroundings?
There are specific steps to bringing about your desire. You do not need to re-invent the wheel. <object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/-EtoUNNddSQ&hl=en_US&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/-EtoUNNddSQ&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object> Think of the Universe as a gigantic intention-fulfilling machine.
While the "Man" may be ever-present in our daily lives, the evidence that our world is changing for the better is compelling. Never before has such an outcry for equality and openness among such diverse communities in the world. While many are screaming doom and gloom, others are looking beyond the conflict of today and seeing a tomorrow brighter than ever before. While an equal world of conscious creators is a nice idea, the prospect of such seems grim.
So you have been practicing being a meaningful attractor and now you have seen how powerfully the Law of Attraction will function in your experience. Life tends to roll along pretty well. The inertia of what's going on just sort of takes the reigns. And then you simply do not remember to be deliberate conce ing monitoring your tone, your vibrational energy. This can occur sometimes. Some negative emotion sets in and then, due to the Law of Attraction, more negative momentum gathers and before you know it you're not feeling that hot.
Five Practices To Stay Away From While On a Date. 1. Competition. This is not the place to judge yourself, your Ex-, your achievements, with his or hers. 2. Skill. Having to project how good you are at being a good partner is unnecessary consideration and that will manifest. 3. Chance. Recall that you were not forced to go on this date. Ultimately, there is no chance involved. 4. Endurance. A date is not a contest to see who can last the longest at being entertaining and intelligent. 5. Rules.
Do you own some dry erase markers? You know, the type of markers that you can wipe off with a wet cloth? <object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/YYz4f6rG4xw&hl=en_US&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/YYz4f6rG4xw&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object> If you don't have any, pick up some next time you go out.
Love is a super high vibration. Appreciation is also a super high vibration. Are you practicing appreciation, love and high vibrations regularly? Good. Even if you find your mood going down the emotional scale in only a matter of minutes you can raise it again.
What you want is seeking you. <object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/rzOxMLQFihY&hl=en_US&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/rzOxMLQFihY&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object> Have you ever considered that what you want is seeking you? What a curious idea. How could that be?
Oftentimes you find that when you want to be in a love relationship what immediately starts showing up is a low self-image or low self-confidence. T?hings like “Oh gosh, I will have to eventually be seen naked. I just don't feel trim or sexy enough.” As a result of the law of attraction, naturally, not only will several intentions come on top of those, but you'll also be creating more intentions of a poor self-image. These thoughts can create havoc with your self-image.
What things in your life do you love? I mean, ponder this for a second.
If you are not aligned with your desire, the law of attraction will be working against you in terms of achieving that desire. Remember the Law of Attraction is always happening. The LOA matches vibration. It mirrors back what you're sending out - whether you're deliberately vibrating or stagnant on the default setting most humans get stuck on.
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach writes... ... Peter from Florida asks: How can I super charge my romance?
It doesn't matter what your history is, it doesn't matter what your fears, conce s and limiting beliefs are today. It doesn't matter what family, country or economic conditions you came from. You can change your point of attraction in a matter of seconds. The time it takes to change your thoughts AND your feelings about those thoughts. Practiced regularly, you'll change your point of attraction and transform you life. Plain and simple. I said simple, not always easy.
Start the day with a clear intention to feel well. Before your feet touch the ground, take 3 conscious breaths and then list five to ten things you appreciate.
There's more to it than picturing and thinking about what you want. Ever since the movie The Secret was created, there has been a lot of interest in the Law of Attraction, and a lot of confusion. Everything is part of the same stuff - Energy.
Recently I got an email from one of my subscribers. He asks ... I'm trying to manifest my desires but fear and anxiety keep creeping in. And then there are a lifetime of bad habits, lack conditioning, low self esteem and the tendency to focus on my previous disappointments. What can I do?
This is the biggest, most efficient, best, most effective way to increase your energy level. Would you like to know what this technique is?
I attracted emotionally unavailable men, men who lived out of state, or traveled a great deal of time. Even though my father was an emotionally absent father, I thought that since I consciously knew it, I'd consciously choose loving relationships with men that were available. Even up to the last relationship I was in prior to having my relationship breakthrough, the guy I was involved with would not commit.
Everything is made up of energy. The Universe attracts energy of the same frequency. While the Law of Attraction is important to understand, there are other laws as well that can help you transform yourself to a higher level of consciousness. These two other laws are called the Law of Association and the Law of Repetition.
Are You getting what You expect out of life? What are your expectations on attracting money, financial success and wealth? What are your expectations on thriving in your life and career? What are your expectations for joyous and fulfilling outcomes in life overall?
The Law of Attraction is like any other law of physics: it's still there even if you don't believe it's true or don't understand it. Although that's true, many people simply can't believe something unless they understand something on an intellectual level. You're much more likely to use Law of Attraction tools correctly when you actually believe in what you're doing. Wealth Attraction can help you in manifesting a situation you have always wanted.
You turn mega attractive to the wealth you want by clarifying exactly what it is you want and why you desire it. So that leaves the How... How DO you clarify your want?
Coming from the mindset of the Law of Attraction, the source of what you emanate is projected or drawn directly back to you. If that's so, (which it is) doesn't it makes practical sense to get dressed with a grin prior to leaving the house?
"I do not want to be hurt again, but I really wish to reach my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate"? <object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/TIViLbW1Ubo&hl=en&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/TIViLbW1Ubo&hl=en&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object> You have two options to pursue here.
Dating is a game. It is a game you wrote the rules for. The trouble is, you forget you wrote the rules. You hid the rules and forgot where you put them. Of all the games we could play, chess, scrabble, cards, or video games, is it not peculiar that we might design and make a game and then forget the rules. It is even more peculiar that you do not remember that you were the person who made the rules and designed the game.
Perhaps You've seen it said, "Emotional Vibration directly become things"? <center><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/p4rrbdmM9bU&hl=en_US&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/p4rrbdmM9bU&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object></center> It's has been said that we have about 60,000 thoughts per day.
It's always recommended to allow actual space for an unhindered relationship to manifest into your experience. That is, clean out a closet, and some drawers. Allow your space for living to be conducive for two people to live comfortable. And while that's important, it's of even greater importance to create space for your emotions.
1. Your desires should be perfectly clear to you. Do you get the feeling that you don't really know what you want? Society teaches us that we shouldn't shoot too high, and as a result people close off their ability to really accept what they want out of life.
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes...
Make sure you are on the lookout for evidence that your love relationship is coming. Or, search for evidence that your love relationship is getting better, if you're currently in a relationship or marriage. <object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/-mLZxY8-iKE&hl=en_US&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/-mLZxY8-iKE&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="4
"You are the vibrational writers of the script of your life, and everyone else in the Universe is doing the role that you have assigned to them".
Pat from Washington DC deeply wants to share her life with a love life partner but is worried about being financially stable before attracting her ideal relationship. <object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/rU2uRV48XWo&hl=en&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/rU2uRV48XWo&hl=en&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object> I truly und
You have an energetic set point at this very moment. If you're not content with what is showing up in your life, you MUST be able to own your intentions – take one-hundred percent ownership and then you can change it. The Universe is not dropping things on your head because of a past life. You don't need to be a good little girl and give yourself to someone else before you can attract your perfect life. It isn't that way!
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach, writes... ... Nora from the UK is curious: “I want a certain person to fall in love with me.
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist, writes... ... We think over 60,000 thoughts per day.