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By SelfGrowth ContributorFeb 8, 20061 topic

The Most Effective Disciplining Technique For Children

Would you like to know about a method of parenting that increases co-operation of your children to 80%, enabling you to spend more time enjoying your children rather than being fed-up with their behaviour.nnWhen it comes to discipline most parents think of: chastisement, grounding or withdrawal of privileges. But do these methods work or do they cause you and the children unnecessary anger and resentment that pushes you further and further away from the loving intentions that

Primary topic: Child Development

Child Development

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By SelfGrowth ContributorMay 22, 20061 topic

How To Turn The Tide and Make Life Work For You

Have you ever tried to change something about someone else? Or have you thought about wanting to change someone or wished they'd change?nnHave you wished your life was different or wanted to change something? Perhaps you've wished for more money or for Mr Right - or Mrs - to come along!nnAlmost all of us want to change something. Most often that thing we want to change is some external - tangible - thing that we perceive will create more happiness. nnFor years I worked in sal

Primary topic: Religion

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By SelfGrowth ContributorJun 5, 20061 topic

"Hey... Someone Stole My Magic! But I intend to Get it Back!"

It happened at 8.07pm. Holding my partner in my arms, I gazed into the yellow-orange flame as it sank behind the hills. But this article isn't about the magic of a sun-set or the magical feeling of romance. It's about something even more special than both.nnAt 8.07pm I realised something. It was a profound realisation: a profound thought that tripped into a profound observation. nnWhat made the observation so profound is the fact that I was thirty-seven years old and had neve

Primary topic: Depression

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By SelfGrowth ContributorJul 3, 20061 topic

What Was All That About

I ask this question because I've been convinced for some time that life isn't really a mishmash of random events, but an always unfolding adventure littered with clues about what should happen next.nnHere's a short example.nnI finished reading a book on Monday and promptly picked up another. The new book is called 'Slow'. On Tuesday things I'd been promised failed to materialise - the bank failed to transfer money on time, contractors didn't deliver, the lawyers didn't have a

Primary topic: Religion

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By SelfGrowth ContributorOct 23, 20061 topic

Fathers and Sons

One of the issues for boys as they pass from childhood into manhood is the need for a strong role models. nnToday, with so many relationship breakdowns and longer working hours, fathers can easily become shadow figures. Boys without strong male influence will, inevitably, find their own role models to follow. It could be a pop-star, a footballer, Homer Simpson, Pete from Big Brother, or the guy who runs the local gang.nnAs fathers, grandfathers, uncles and neighbours we have

Primary topic: Parenting

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By SelfGrowth ContributorJun 12, 20061 topic

Can We Sort This Conflict Out?

As the old saying goes 'More people fall out over politics and religion than anything else.' And it was this prospect that brought spice to the invitation I received to go along to a discussion involving four local leaders, looking to create greater community cohesion.nnWe don't have to look too far to see conflict. Put on the TV, pick up a newspaper, listen to musical lyrics, children or neighbours. Shall we go into Iran? Where's all our water going? Who pinched the toy? Who

Primary topic: Religion

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By SelfGrowth ContributorMay 25, 20061 topic

Let's Get Better At Asking For What We Want

Years ago I went door-knocking. Not any old door-knocking, but the worst kind, cold-call, door-knocking. nnTo begin with I hatred it: walking up someone's drive, ringing the bell and waiting for someone to come, look down their nose at me and reject me and what I had to offer. But the experience grew on me.nnWhen I totted things up I understood I had a one-seven success rate - meaning for every seven doors that got slammed, one opened and one person said yes. nnWhat did this

Primary topic: Business Opportunities

Business Opportunities

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By SelfGrowth ContributorJan 23, 20061 topic

The Power of The Positive

You and me... we can choose to be happy or not. We can choose to succeed or fail, scald, frown on or blame others. We can choose to complicate life or simplify it. There is no doubt the responsibility is ours. nnAbraham Lincoln once said, âA man is just about as happy as he makes up his mind to beâ and Dr Wayne Dyer and Deepak Chopra appear to agree. nnBoth Dyer and Chopra say that we have, on average 60,000 to 62,000 thoughts each day. Around 4,000 of these are positive,

Primary topic: Spiritual Growth

Spiritual Growth

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By SelfGrowth ContributorOct 19, 20051 topic

Tapping the Power of your Inner Wisdom

When was the last time someone sat you down and told you how amazing, special and unique you are? nnToday? A few days ago? A while back? Never? nnFor most of us itâs been some timeâ¦ But does that mean we are anything short of magnificent?nnWe easily recall the times when someone tells us we did wrong, when we were made to feel bad for trying and getting it wrong; when weâve been reprimanded or punished for a mistake that happened in a momentary lapse in concentration or

Primary topic: Love

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By SelfGrowth ContributorFeb 22, 20061 topic

Promoting Your Business With People Aligned To Creating A Better World

It was an email that made me change it all. It forced me to ask a question - a question I sent back to my friend.nnYou see Iâd got fed up with all the going nowhere, negative down talk in the media. Simply put I want to see a change in the world. So I asked my friend my questionâ¦nnâWell, what are you going to do about it?â I asked.nnMy friend replied. âI donât know. I guess Iâm telling you.ânnAnd that was itâ¦ that was what frustrated me into changing - the k

Primary topic: Business Opportunities

Business Opportunities

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By SelfGrowth ContributorMar 7, 20061 topic

Why Not Choose Something Different?

Are you someone who wants to see change in your personal circumstance and in the world surrounding you? n nA short time ago I decided that I didn't much like "reality" and ever since that day, my endeavour has been to change anything about my "reality" that I don't like.n nIt is my understanding that my "reality" is my creation. To this end I've found "I got me into this mess and I'll get me out of it" to be a pretty fair take on life. Have I always felt like that? No. In the

Primary topic: Adult and Senior Development

Adult and Senior Development

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By SelfGrowth ContributorOct 30, 20061 topic

Making Money Easily

In my early, to mid-twenties I made money easily, recession or not. I never had any debts, except the mortgage and money just seemed to flow to me. But then it all stopped rather abruptly and for years I was left with one questionâ¦nnWhy?nnIn truth my life changed. It could be argued it completely fell apart. Perhaps the most challenging area of this - long term - was around money and career. In fact I've reflect on these challenges many times, i.e. why do they seem so diffi

Primary topic: Career Development

Career Development

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By SelfGrowth ContributorJan 15, 20071 topic

The Part The Guru Left Out

In this article I'm going to lay things on the line concerning a couple of phrases you may have heard being banded around spirituality circles. I'm doing this because I think we all owe it to ourselves to develop a fuller relationship with certain areas of our lives. Through the experience of doing this, we can grow.nnOne of the favourite phrases I hear in New Age spirituality is: 'Give what you want to get.' If you want money, you give money and money comes back to you. Anot

Primary topic: Religion

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By SelfGrowth ContributorOct 12, 20051 topic

How to Capture Great Opportunity

How do you treat opportunities?nnMore often than not, most of us walk the pavement looking down, rather than up. We miss the opportunity to smile and connect with passers-by. And Iâm sure that over the last year or two, people frown more and smile less. And if this is how we treat each other, I wonder how we treat the opportunities that flow our way.nnDigging a little, I discovered some interesting answers. nnIt seems that people, in general, are not happy. Aside of the str

Primary topic: Spiritual Growth

Spiritual Growth

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By SelfGrowth ContributorNov 2, 20051 topic

Ordinary or Extra-Ordinary?

There is a way to feel wonderful all of the time and whatâs more it is quite simple to implement. nnIâm not sure about you, but I canât think of any other outcome that would be higher, or that I would enjoy more, than for a person to have had an interaction with me and enjoyed it so much that they want to spend time with me over and over again. Iâm sure this is what most of us want, but do we go about it in the right way?nnWhen we meet people we want to share ourselve

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By SelfGrowth ContributorOct 16, 20061 topic

Like a Hammer

Money isn't everything, but when you have it, isn't life a little easier?nnAnd I think it is true to say that money, properly earned and combined with enlightened intentions, it can make the world a better place.nnMoney is an energy tool. 'Like a hammer, money can either be used to build or destroy,â say Mark Victor Hansen and Robert Allen. If this is true then we have a couple of questions to answer: are we going to build something, and if so will it be something that buil

Primary topic: General Self Help

General Self Help

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By SelfGrowth ContributorFeb 27, 20071 topic

Moulding the Life You Love

The treasures inside are infinitely greater than the scraps of the material worldnEckhart TollennBefore I sat down to write this, I was on the sofa with my eyes shut. As I lay there, relaxing and enjoying what I can only describe as a magnificent moment, I thought of a way to make it better.nnLaughing, I called to my partner and asked if she could help me. When she came in, I told her about my moment and my idea to make it better.nnIt was simple - all I wanted to do was share

Primary topic: Positive Thinking

Positive Thinking

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By SelfGrowth ContributorNov 16, 20051 topic

Bring Balance to Life...

nWhen you think of living a balanced life, think about Robin Hood. Hood lived a spirited life, while endeavouring to harmonise the imbalance of wealth - pinching from the rich and shelling it out the poor - he communed with nature and attended to the work-life balance like a saint - partying with his mates and dating the fairest maiden in the land. Yet today, many of us seem to struggle in the most uncomfortable way of living, nose to the grindstone, shoulder to the wheel and

Primary topic: Women's Issues

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By SelfGrowth ContributorOct 26, 20051 topic

Whoever Said We Canât Change the World Underestimated the Power of Human Spirit

Summary: Are you holding the light for something incredible to happen? Are you ready for the next step?n nTags: wisdom, religion, teachers, CommunitySoul, community, soul, unique gifts, soul mate. nnnnI turned off the TV yesterday because the presenter talked about a reality alien to me.nnShe talked about road rage and trolley rage and people not apologising for bumping into each other and pushing in at check outs. My community is a rural one - quiet and friendly, but I know

Primary topic: General Self Help

General Self Help

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By SelfGrowth ContributorJun 27, 20061 topic

Soul Calling For Expansion

We're met by many challenges in life: mental, physical, economical, environmental, community, cultural, political etc. And sometimes these challenges become painful. This article is about how we face these challenges.nnOn Monday, around 2pm, in Bristol, I hit threshold. By my own standards I'd been taking it easy for a while and I knew I needed a shake up. nnThough my challenge was a physical one, the experience gained can be easily applied to any part of life. You see, we kn

Primary topic: General Self Help

General Self Help

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