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If you’re in a sexual relationship, there’s probably more on your mind than chocolate and flowers when it comes to Valentine’s Day. No doubt, you’re thinking about putting the moves on your sweetheart to get some hot sex going in the bedroom. If you want to ensure you ...
Does your partner complain that you are not a good lover? Do you want to improve your lovemaking technique? If you want to make your partner purr with pleasure, you must: 1. Learn what your partner enjoys. Just because you read about a great technique in an article or book doesn’t mean that ...
Whether you’ve been married a year or a decade, you’ve probably discovered that sex can go stale, no matter how much you love your partner. Keeping sex hot in a monogamous relationship is a challenge—but can you think of a better one to tackle? As any sex therapist will tell ...
Even though an orgasm is only a small part of the lovemaking experience, couples are always interested in how to make it better. They want to know the best sex positions, the best lubricants, the best sex toys, the best lovemaking techniques for exciting themselves to stronger climax. But ...
It happens to everyone: sex becomes routine or passionless. It doesn’t have to be that way! In fact, it’s easy to get that tingle back if you try easy ideas to generate new excitement. 1. Sex 911. That’s right, you can declare a “sexual emergency.” Text your partner and tell them that ...
We hear it all the time, how sex in marriage or long-term relationships fades or dies out altogether. One or both partners lose their sexual desire. Passion is a forgotten memory. Making love becomes an obligation or an afterthought. But does it have to be that way? Take this quiz and see ...
As a sex therapist and psychologist in Orange County, CA, I have found that a lot of people believe that it’s always the woman who has no sex drive. But that is a myth. Women also call to complain that their husband or male partner has no interest in sex. Women who have a husband with low libido, like men with wives who have no drive, also state that they feel rejected, unloved, and unattractive. In part because of the myth that “men always want sex,” they sometimes feel even more desperate than their male counterparts. They experience intense sadness and become frustrated.
Want to know the shocking secret of passionate sex? It has nothing to do with technique! The shocking secret of passionate sex is to be able to talk about it with your partner. Amazed? You shouldn’t be. That’s one of the first things any good sex therapist would tell you if the ...
Lots of couples complain about sex getting boring or routine. They must not realize what you’re about to learn: That if you’ve been together awhile, hot sex takes work, as well as play. Here are 5 super ways to keep things sizzling in the bedroom. 1. Learn to be seductive. You don’t have to ...
You would think that with all the information there is about good sex more people would be better at pleasing their partners when they make love. Sadly, a lot of folks pay little attention to how they can become a better lover. It isn’t that difficult to learn how to make love. ...
Are you in a sexless marriage? I’m a sex therapist in Orange County, CA and I assure you, you are not alone! About 25% of all marriages are “sexless,” meaning that the couple has sex fewer than one to two dozen times a year. Sometimes marriages naturally go through dry spells. A partner might be sick, be pulled by care-giving demands, or absent due to military or other job obligations. But when couples go for a year or longer without connecting in the bedroom, there’s a problem. What causes a sexless marriage?
Want passionate sex? The first step is to figure out what you mean when you think about sex that is passionate. You could think that sex is passionate when your partner: Acts like they want you right nowr Is more aggressive than usualr Goes slower than usualr Takes the time to explorer Gets right into itr Is tenderr Is rough As you might guess, passionate sex means different things to different people! Some couples are lucky; they read each other easily and can usually figure out what kind of passionate sex their partner wants.
Does your sex life have about as much dazzle as an old, beat up penny? Do you love your partner, but feel sad that sex just isn’t the same as it used to be? It doesn’t have to be that way. Here are the top 8 ways to put the passion back into your relationship. 1. Plan for passion. Maybe ...
For some people, letting their partner know when they want to have sex turns into a big problem. They seem to only ask their partner for sex in one way all the time, no matter what is going on in their partner’s life. So it’s no wonder that when they ask for sex, they end up with a big, fat ...
We all know it happens: A few years (or sometimes a few months!) into a relationship, sex can get boring, even with a partner that you still love in your heart. Like boiling away the flavor from a stick of cinnamon, you may find that the “heat” has evaporated from the bedroom. But don’t toss ...