Paul Dobransky, M.D.
Board-Certified, American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology
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Evolutionary Psychology, Journalism, Dating and Courtship Theory, Novel Treatments for Depression and Anxiety Expert

Paul Dobransky, M.D. Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Men's Dating, Women's Dating and Relationships, Depression, Gender Communication, Psychological Trauma, Violence and Bullying, Television, Radio and Print Journalism
- Best Sellers
- Depresculinity, the New Men's Depression, The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love, MindOS: the operating system of the human mind
- Career Focus
- Public Education and Media Production
- Affiliation
- Board of Medical Advisors, Maximum Fitness Magazine, Blogger, Psychology Today Magazine
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15+ years clinical psychiatric care, Board-certified Psychiatrist, while also a “Man About Town” and one of the most sought-after dating/relationship and psychology expert resources for journalists worldwide.
- Publisher and CEO of Men's Psychology Magazine.
- Publisher and CEO of Women's Happiness Magazine.
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Author of two non-fiction books with Penguin: The Secret Psychology Of How We Fall In Love and The Power of Female Friendship. When working with men, I give you not only the “Guy’s guy” perspective, but the deep psychology on what makes women tick from THEIR perspective. All backed by clinical experience helping many thousands of female patients. That's the Doctor Paul difference.
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Appearances on NBC, podcaster for NBC5.com/bettersex, cast member of IN THE LOOP with iVillage, ABC, CBS, CNN, FOX and various others.
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Maximum Fitness Magazine - Contributor and Advisory Board Member. Articles in Men's Health, Maxim, Men’s Journal, Men’s Fitness, NYTimes, USAToday, msn.com and numerous others.
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One of the few remaining “Unification Theorists”. All my models for psychology, dating, attraction, and relationships are based not on simply one “school of psychology,” but a unification of over 15 “schools.”
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Been “in the trenches” just like you. The career challenges, dating challenges and relationship challenges – I’ve lived them all, and so when I speak to you, it is not just as a world-renown mind scientist, but as a regular guy who has seen it all. In learning to “teach myself” attraction and dating, I have found that in learning to master these, nothing even comes close to models that use VISUAL DIAGRAMS for effectiveness…
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The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love
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Masculine Intelligence (tm)
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KWML(tm)
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Mature Masculine Power
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Complete Feminine Empowerment
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***DEPRESCULINITY: THE NEW TYPE OF DEPRESSION IN MEN
You always knew there ought to be a name for it - the state of mind suffered only by men, related to women and or work... and not be fully living. I have a word to coin. One that's likely been in your life at some point, if only for a day, or a week, or a month. It blocked your ability to meet women, but not to be out and about socially. It thwarted your sense of pride in your work, but not enough to prevent you from getting out of bed every morning to take the bus to that office cubicle.
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***The "Five Shoes" of Forgiving a Woman (and Being Forgiven)
We usually hear about the importance of resolving arguments with empathy and perspective for the other person described as "there are two sides to every coin," or "what would it be like if the shoe was on the other foot?" What about thinking about the shoe itself in that metaphor? Today we have a pretty flawless, thorough way to look at the process of forgiving a woman who's (maybe) done you wrong, and a way to really amplify your own gains in personal growth in the process.
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***The 5 Women Who Will Ruin Your Game
They are the bane of your social life - ruining your best efforts at attracting women. And they may not even know they're doing it. Of course you know who I'm talking about, even though we tend not to complain about it or mention it to others - especially women. Especially THOSE women.
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***From Boys of Violence to Men of Steel
The divide between boy-thinking and mature male thinking is deep but narrow. Learn how destructive behavior can be turned to the power to build a career, a romance, and a life... Many of you have discovered the unprecedented value in the entirely FREE, Do It Yourself Dating and Attraction Bootcamp Program. You may also have discovered that PART II reveals immediately useful systems to be more effective with women, VIA YOUR IPOD. It’s literally your personal dating and attraction coach by audio player! AND…
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***Levels of Intimacy
It's something so subtle that most men don't know it's there, but it's at the top of the mind and of highest conce to women: the "intimacy" part of physical intimacy. Men would generally rather ponder the aspects of the "physical" part of course, but some attention to what's going on between the ears would pay off enormously in ways of getting closer to women through a physical connection.
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***What To Do On A First Date With A Woman
A first date with a woman had better not be the only date on your social horizon. Get that straight right from the beginning. I don’t care if you are short, fat, bald, “ugly,” haven’t ever played a guitar or rode a motorcycle. I don’t even care if you can’t dance, have a small penis, and were always the last picked in gym class. The only thing about me on this list is that last item, but that’s beside the point. For most of my adolescent life, being last picked in gym class was a source of endless shame for me. I let it seep into every interaction I had with women.
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***The Number One Sexual Attractor
Recently, I came across some stunning actual scientific findings from evolutionary psychology regarding a man’s ability to attract and date quality women who are right for them. After all, men worldwide want to find what works for them to become more accomplished in this area; to actually have some control and power over their lives. What a downer it would be to find that two genetic or physical features of one's constitution matter more than anything else. One of the traits was a relatively large attractor, though not the top one. It was the characteristic of sheer, physical height.
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***The World's Greatest Invention
Many men I know are unhappy and are completely lost. It sounds dramatic, but many men feel like they’re living in a plagued society burdened with disease. Infected and looking to the heavens, they need answers to prayers that aren’t heard. Most men are not even sure why they feel the way they do. It’s sad to say a guide is needed on how to be a man these days. Not all their fault men need help that they instinctively despise asking for. What they need is an invention. Plagues have occurred throughout history. But men have battled them by using their minds to create new inventions.r
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***Decades of Women
We often lump women together into one group; as if they were all cut from the same cloth. While to a certain extent, it is possible that feminine instincts are uniform across demographic boundaries: the desire for resources, the desire for friendship or belonging to a group with focus, the appreciation of masculine attributes such as charm, humor, territoriality and possibly even aggression. There are some fascinating subtleties to the drives and ambitions of women as they develop psychologically through the decades.
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***How to Deal With a Woman Who Can't Celebrate or Be Thankful
Here are your missions of the week: We recognize that the three areas of a man's life which masculinize him, and make him feel most alive, vital and attractive are Work, Women, and Being a Man. At Men's Psychology Magazine we are not just about ideas and talk. We are about you taking the lessons of the many men's skill building courses, and putting them to real action in your life. Below are your "Missions of the Week" in the three core masculine areas, to get a jumpstart on life.
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***How To Meet Women
How to meet women is a different subject than where to meet women, and WHETHER you will meet women at all. Do you have particular goals with women? Or in the skill to meet them? Do you know what you even want in a woman? Or in what you will share with her? Do you want casual dating? Or a serious girlfriend? You need to answer these sorts of questions before you even begin to address the topic. The exact methods, strategies and tactics will become clear to you when you answer these questions, and I explain every possible detail in the Omega Male Program.
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***How To Know If A Woman Likes You
A woman likes you if she looks at you, if she talks to you and lets you talk, if she touches you or lets you touch her, and certainly if she kisses you or has sex with you. You see, there are DEGREES to “liking” and a DURATION to how long and how much you are “liked.” Through this all there is no guarantee that it will be present in the next year, or month, or week, day, hour or minute. Because “liking” is dependent on the emotions and the factors that shift and change and get challenged – the factors behind the three kinds of attraction I lay out for you in the Omega Male Program.
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Men’s Psychology Magazine – Masculine Intelligence ™ for Understanding and Being a Man
Men’s Psychology is designed to help men to fulfillment in the areas of dating and relationships, career, and much more! Using only real sciences and the latest technology from the emerging field of men’s psychology, we help men build skills, solve problems - all to the result of bringing men and women together.
September 24, 2014
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KWML
KWML is the groundbreaking technology developed by Dr. Paul Dobransky, MD, that analyzes and compares the scientific personality traits of both Men and Women - giving you the knowledge and tools to find, screen and select your perfect match.
March 22, 2011
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Women's Happiness Magazine
A site for women that teaches the latest technology in dating, relationships and personal growth, maturity, character, and friendship, through integrated systems of psychology. The advice of an older brother is the spirit, with honest feedback on masculine instinct, behavior, and the science of human courtship...
March 7, 2011
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KWML Mastery will help you: - Impress, influence, or direct others in general. - Knowing what to focus on, what you want in a woman, or how to screen women for the right fit to your personality. - Knowing what to say and do when first meeting a woman - Getting and mastering second dates and beyond, to the point of securing a girlfriend - Mastering social circles, business networking, and cultivating friendships |
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