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By bob-lancerDec 16, 20111 topic

Marriage Help: Inspirational Words Of Love

Inspirational words of love may be just the marriage help you need. It’s amazing how powerful a few lovely words can be for transforming the mood of your relationship. If you and your mate have been feeling a bit challenged by one another, try using inspirational words of love instead of complaining, for marriage help. Here are some examples: 1.“If you love somebody, let them go.” For marriage help, speak these inspirational words of love by Kahlil Gibran to yourself when

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerDec 16, 20111 topic

Are You Teaching Your Children To Not Listen?

Positive Discipline is about teaching children, in a loving way that preserves their healthy self-esteem, to behave well ON THEIR OWN. It is also about teaching children to heed our directions when we need to direct. We teach children to IGNORE our directions, and our corrections, when deliver them incorrectly. Parenting skills therefore need to include knowing when to NOT direct, to give the child a chance to develop responsible behavior on his own. And also knowing HOW to d

Primary topic: Parenting
Parenting
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By bob-lancerDec 16, 20111 topic

Daily Inspiration Strategies From Inspirational Videos To Save Your Marriage

In this article we will look at some daily inspiration strategies contained in Wisie relationship inspirational videos that may help you save your marriage. The painful direction your relationship takes probably advances through many small, hurtful steps. To improve your relationship, take small helpful steps, like viewing Wisie relationship success videos, because they offer powerful, positive relationship success strategies. What follows are some examples of these small

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerDec 16, 20111 topic

Avoid Counter-Productive Parenting

Parents and their children have a complex relationship. As children progress through the stages of development they are bound to experiment with countless forms of challenging behavior. What their parents do in response to their behavior operates on the child’s development on many levels. When we respond properly to the child’s improper behavior, the child quickly recognizes the appropriate boundary. He then outgrows the problem behavior most swiftly, moving into more mature

Primary topic: Parenting
Parenting
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By bob-lancerDec 16, 20111 topic

Motivational Videos For Self-Improvement

Wisie motivational videos are today’s new breakthrough way to success through self-improvement. Wisie motivational videos present deeper practical wisdom messages than you will find anywhere else, messages that lead to great breakthroughs and release tremendous power. Through brilliant verbal messages on success through self-improvement, matched with poignant, vivid imagery and gently inspiring music that drive their wisdom home, wisie 90-second motivational videos are sure

Primary topic: Personal Development
Personal Development
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By bob-lancerDec 16, 20111 topic

Mother Quotes From The Heart

This article presents inspirational mother quotes, quotes that come from the heart of mothers (which include quotes about mothers) that I gathered from moms who attended my parenting classes. Sometimes touching, sometimes educational, these mother quotes give personal insight into the challenges and triumphs of parenting. As a dad, I can say that these inspirational quotes of mothers are also for fathers. What follows are samples from several categories of quotes by mothers.

Primary topic: Parenting
Parenting
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By bob-lancerDec 16, 20111 topic

Help Your Self To Help... For Success

Self help is absolutely crucial for your success. To achieve all the success that you desire, you need to do all that is within your power to help your self to achieve your goals. Over relying on others, or even on God, will only lead to your disappointment. Self help alone is never enough, though. There is a limit to what you can accomplish on your own. Forming strategic alliances with others, and learning how to trust what lies beyond your power of control, are just as nec

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence
Self-Esteem and Self Confidence
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By bob-lancerDec 16, 20111 topic

Solutions For Easier Child Behavior Management

Dealing with child behavior is sometimes incredibly difficult. The most common child behavior problem can push any parent over the edge, including: Crying on and on Rejecting "no" for an answerr Outright defiancer Disrespectful "back talk" Picky eatingr Refusing to do household chores or schoolworkr Lyingr Dawdling when you need to leaver Drifting off taskr Whining helplesslyr Resisting bedtimer Sibling rivalry The following solutions can make it easier for you to handle and

Primary topic: Parenting
Parenting
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By bob-lancerDec 16, 20111 topic

Parent Stress-Relief

In the midst of the hustle and bustle of parenting kids, a common mistake involves the parent focusing too much on the child’s inappropriate action, and not focusing enough on the parent’s reaction to that action. For instance, say your toddler is behaving inappropriately in a public setting, like in church. While the Pastor attempts to deliver a moving sermon, yours is the only child determined to move right along with it. He breaks free of your grasp and runs up and down th

Primary topic: Parenting
Parenting
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By bob-lancerDec 16, 20111 topic

Parenting Kids Without Punishment

Being a parent is without a doubt among the most demanding jobs on earth – that is, if you strive to be a great parent. Like any other endeavor, though, you can slide by in parenting if you choose. But if you do strive to be the very best parent for your child that you can be, one of the most challenging aspects of parenting kids well has to do with appropriately handling child behavior problems. Punishment is often the first option that parents resort to. But in this parenti

Primary topic: Parenting
Parenting
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By bob-lancerDec 16, 20111 topic

Improving The Relationship Between Parents and Their Children

Parents influence their children in many ways, but none may be more significant than the quality of the relationship between parents and their children. The quality of the relationship between parents and their children exerts one of the strongest influences upon child behavior. When parents and their children clash, their children cannot demonstrate their best behavior. Any parent who wants help in dealing with a challenging child behavior problem will find at least some rel

Primary topic: Parenting
Parenting
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By bob-lancerDec 16, 20111 topic

Motivational Quotes Convey Success Secrets

Motivational quotes are more than just... well... motivational! Quotes by high achievers not only have the capacity to fire you up with the drive and confidence you need to succeed like the great. Motivational quotes also have the power to light you up with the timeless, universal wisdom of how to succeed. Short motivational quotes like the following by the great American psychologist and sage of the late 1800's and early 1900's, William James, provide an excellent example:

Primary topic: Inspirational Quotes
Inspirational Quotes
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

Romantic Relationship Advice (Part 1)

Relationship advice that pertains to romance typically ranges from the superficial to the silly, in many self-help books and magazines. This shallow quality of romantic relationship advice may be a reflection of the dearth of romance in so many marriages, particularly those with children. Relationship advice for a deeper romantic bond is not critical. You won't die without romance, if by life you mean only the active heartbeat that can be sustained through artificial, mechan

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

Couples: Here's How To Argue

While couples argue, they fight against their love. They relate with one another as adversaries, turning passionate loving into passionate loathing. And yet, while it involves sorrow and pain, even the most heated shouting matches can serve as a healthy and necessary catharsis for the relationship to grow. When couples argue they can relieve themselves of the pent up frustrations and resentments that are bound to build in any meaningful, long-term relationship. Healthy coup

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

4 Relationship Tips For How To Win With Impossible People

We all have to deal with "impossible" people from time to time. You may even be living with one! Let's define an "impossible person" as someone who seems irrationally unwilling to cooperate with you in some way that you regard as important. He or she seems impervious to your reasoning, impossible to reach. This brief article presents relationship tips for sanely handling this potentially maddening challenge. Relationship Tips For How To Win With Impossible People: 1 The firs

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

Relationship Advice For Growth: 8 Tips

There is no relationship advice that can save us from the fact that relationships challenge all of us to the utmost at times. Even the best relationship advice that you can find offers no escape from this because life demands our ongoing personal development. So if you are looking for relationship advice that will make your relationships easy all the time, you look in vain. Real relationship advice guides you, not in how to avoid hard relationship challenges, but in how to

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

Relationship Advice For The Needy

Don't you just love advice that you can really use? Sound relationship advice is truly priceless because it steers us in the direction of love. Relationship advice based on how relationships really work can help you to avoid, and help you to heal from, a broken heart; it can lead you more quickly and easily to your heart's fulfillment There are definite universal principles at work in every relationship. Advice that proves reliable needs to be based on these principles. One

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

How To Find Happiness In Marriage: Relationships Thrive On Personal Responsibility

Never underestimate the role of personal responsibility in marriage. Relationships do not replace our personal responsibility for our own happiness. You make yourself happy or unhappy in your relationship. Help yourself out of marital dissatisfaction by adhering to the following marriage advice: accept total responsibility for your happiness. Marriage tips seem to abound these days, yet rarely is this particular bit of relationship advice given the attention it truly deserves

Primary topic: Marriage Coaching
Marriage Coaching
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

8 Essential Keys To Life-Balance

Life-balance is essential for ascending into higher levels of success in life. An unbalanced life, like an unbalanced building, leans toward collapse; the higher you go, the closer the fall. 2 Each individual's true life-balance is unique. For each needs a unique measure of time spent with loved ones, in solitude, working, playing, resting, engaged in routine, breaking from routine, being in a noisy environment, being in a quiet environment, being indoors, being outdoors, etc

Primary topic: Inspiration
Inspiration
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

Positive Thinking: Why It Doesn't Work For Everyone - And How It Can Work For You

Everyone has heard about the power of positive thinking. Filling your mind with inspiring thoughts and exposing yourself to inspirational messages are great keys to personal development and success. And yet, only the very few top performers in any field really apply this age-old wisdom for its full benefit. The reason may lie in the fact that positive thinking requires more self-discipline than most people realize or are willing to apply. The purpose of this success article i

Primary topic: Personal Development
Personal Development
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

Soar Into Success With Inspirational Quotes

Wisdom Articles > Wisdom for Successr Soar Into Success With Inspirational Quotesr By Bob Lancer Feeding your mind with inspirational quotes is a way to stay positive. Quotes of inspired individuals convey the power of their inspiration to you. Because achieving major goals requires a positive attitude, reading inspiring thoughts by high achievers represents one of life's great success secrets. Consider this empowering statement of Thomas Jefferson's: "Nothing can stop the

Primary topic: Inspirational Quotes
Inspirational Quotes
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

Dreams and Inspirations Build a Better World

This newsletter presents you with inspiration quotes that support the self-empowering insight that the world truly is ruled by dreamers. Dreams are not conditions that occur only in sleep. The inspiration quotes that follow deal with the power of deliberately dreaming of the future. These dreams determine the conditions to come. Inspiration Quotes About Future-Dreaming Every dream of the future moves the world toward that dream. The world today is the product of yesterday'

Primary topic: Motivation
Motivation
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

Romantic Relationship Advice (Part 2)

While standard romantic relationship advice recommends things like giving flowers and candy, wearing special perfume or even feathers, dancing on a date, etc. - those represent only extra efforts, like new icing on an old cake. But the cake itself may be spoiled! What spoils a marriage are the build-up of blockages to romantic flow. What follows is romantic relationship advice in the form of a four-week program aimed at releasing those blockages. As you do the inner work tha

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

Romantic Relationship Advice (Part 3): 5 Insights To Set Your Heart Free

Romantic Relationship Advice Insight 1: The Power of The Small We release the spark of romance and fuel it into passion through the smallest advances. Based on this insight, your romantic relationship advice is to give your mate an admiring glance, a soft kiss that comes as a surprise, a fleeting touch of tende ess prolonged an extra moment. Romantic Relationship Advice Insight 2: Confront Fear Romantic advances involve the risk or rejection. Holding onto past hurts paralyz

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerDec 2, 20111 topic

The Relationship Law of Growth

Going through overwhelming challenges gives us the opportunity to make a leap of growth: as we improve our handling of those challenges, we fulfill our greater purpose and potential at the deepest levels. So, when your relationship feels the most trying see it as our “graduation” into your greater self and a greater life. To be really mature about such trials would be to actually feel grateful for them. It’s No One’s Fault It’s not your fault when your relationship gets roc

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerJun 18, 20111 topic

Help Your Self To Help... For Success

Self help is absolutely crucial for your success. To achieve all the success that you desire, you need to do all that is within your power to help your self to achieve your goals. Over relying on others, or even on God, will only lead to your disappointment. Self help alone is never enough, though. There is a limit to what you can accomplish on your own. Forming strategic alliances with others, and learning how to trust what lies beyond your power of control, are just as nec

Primary topic: Empowerment
Empowerment
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By bob-lancerApr 1, 20111 topic

Couples: Here's How To Argue

While couples argue, they fight against their love. They relate with one another as adversaries, turning passionate loving into passionate loathing. And yet, while it involves sorrow and pain, even the most heated shouting matches can serve as a healthy and necessary catharsis for the relationship to grow. When couples argue they can relieve themselves of the pent up frustrations and resentments that are bound to build in any meaningful, long-term relationship. Healthy coup

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerMar 12, 20111 topic

The Real Magic Of Goal Achievement

Goal achievement is not just practical; it's magical! Even though it is the result of something that is, for the most part, easy to comprehend, when we watch a dream turn into reality it feels like the essence of real magic and inspires us with enchantment. As I have explained in a previous article, the process of goal achievement basically comes down to something extremely simple: persistently take the best action you can, aimed at accomplishing what you want. As I also ex

Primary topic: Inspiration
Inspiration
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By bob-lancerMar 12, 20111 topic

Mastering Goal Achievement

Goal achievement is really a very simple process: persistently take your best action for what you want until you arrive at your goal. As simple as this seems, very few actually employ the process to achieve really big goals. The key to using the goal achievement process to make your greatest dreams come true is practice. Goal achievement is a skill, and like any other skill, it can be mastered. The process of mastering any skill involves practice. The more you practice the s

Primary topic: Inspirational Quotes
Inspirational Quotes
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By bob-lancerMar 12, 20111 topic

A Secret To Goal Achievement

This article presents a very powerful "secret" for goal achievement. The "secret" is to make your action-plans easy enough for you to follow through on. Goal achievement is the fruition of a process that is totally reliable: 1. Take action in line with what you want 2. Learn from your experience to make improvements in your approach as you go 3. Persistr And your goal achievement is virtually guaranteed. What holds most people back from goal achievement is failing to take a

Primary topic: Inspiration
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By bob-lancerMar 4, 20111 topic

Real Love Making: The Key To A Great Marriage

Real love making is the formula for a great marriage, and a great marriage is like a springboard to great success. Real love making is about making love, not war, in your marriage. A truly great marriage means more than just sticking it out together. A great marriage means real love making - in other words, it means getting along great! To make love and not war in your marriage means to look for loving, harmonious ways to work things out. The more harmonious your marriage,

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerMar 4, 20111 topic

Love Advice For Finding Your Ideal Relationship

The love advice that you will find here is really essential for your growing relationship satisfaction. By applying the love advice that follows you will progressively grow more fulfilled in your love life. So the love advice that follows applies to all of us, including those facing a very severe relationship difficulty or no relationship at all. To experience the ecstatic joy of realizing that you are in your ideal relationship, you first have to find that relationship with

Primary topic: Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
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By bob-lancerFeb 24, 20111 topic

7 Self-Help Resolutions For Happiness and Success

Why wait for New Years Day to make your resolutions for happiness and success? Why not resolve today to direct your life into the greater happiness and success available to you? So many do not experience all of the happiness and success they desire because they blame someone else for their problems instead of resolving to become all they can be and to do all they can do for all the happiness and success they want. Their fear of another's power distracts them from a more effe

Primary topic: Personal Development
Personal Development
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By bob-lancerFeb 12, 20111 topic

Dreamers Rule The World

We usually think of dreams as conditions that occur only in sleep. But you dream every time you think of the past or the future. Think of what you had for breakfast today and a dream flashes in your mind. For an instant, you are living in that dream. Deliberate Dreamers Are Practical We often think of the term “dreamer” with a negative connotation. Dreamers, we hear, are impractical people. Dreamers think, but they don't do. The truth is, though, that the most accomplished i

Primary topic: Inspirational Quotes
Inspirational Quotes
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By bob-lancerFeb 8, 20111 topic

5 Personal Development Practices For Greater Success

Because your results are equal to the level of your skills and knowledge, personal development is a crucial key for attaining higher levels success. Here are 5 essential personal development practices to support your higher accomplishment: 1 Control over circumstances begins with controlling your reaction to your circumstances. To develop your power of self-control, practice handling every challenging situation with calm and steady peace and poise. 2 Your power flows in the

Primary topic: Inspirational Quotes
Inspirational Quotes
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By bob-lancerFeb 8, 20111 topic

True Wisdom For Success

We need wisdom for success that addresses the pattern of the wave! The wave describes the inevitable up-and-down pattern of life. Self-help success teachings usually seem to imply that there is a way to skip the lows, the falls, the losses and just rise right to the top. But that just leads to disappointment. We need wisdom for success that guides us through the disappointments, and also through the triumphs. Losing is unavoidable and winning is never enough. True wisdom fo

Primary topic: Wisdom
Wisdom
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By Bryan HeathmanJun 10, 20082 topics

Time Management Mastery

From Potential to Performance One of the great things about life is that we can realistically be or do anything we choose to. This includes being a good time manager! We must believe that we can be a good time manager – that we have the potential. Unfortunately, many people say, “Well, I am just a poor time manager,” as if it was ingrained in their DNA. The truth is that anyone can be a great time manager, if they choose to go from potential to performance. So, how do we do

Primary topic: Time Management
Time ManagementPersonal Development
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