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Thinking You Are in Control Prevents You from Making Changes Vital to Developing a Successful Relationship

Thinking you are in control of your life might lead you to believe you have done all it takes to develop a successful relationship. But if this is the case, why do you fail with your relationships time and again? Is it possible that you are not aware of the ways in which you sabotage your attempts? BELIEVING YOU ARE IN CONTROL MAKES YOU FAIL IN YOUR RELAITONSHIPS TIME AND AGAIN

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Can You Blame “The Other Sex” for Your Failed Relationships?

If you have been trying for a long time now to have a satisfying intimacy and didn’t succeed, it is very likely that you fail due to lack of Self-Awareness: you don’t understand how you shoot yourself in the foot. Developing Self-Awareness will enable you to realize a host of factors which drive you to harm your relationships, de-activate the power these factors exert over you and become empowered to develop a successful and satisfying relationship.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Using “Stay-Over Relationships” to Find a Partner & Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

A “new trend” in dating is on the rise: “THE STAY-OVER RELATIONSHIP”. Men & women pack up their bag and “move in” with their date (“partner”) for two or three days. If you are taking part in this new trend you can make use of your “stay-over relationships” for your personal growth and self-empowerment. How? By taking the time to become aware of what is important for you in relationships. This will empower you to eventually find a partner with whom to develop a satisfying, long-term intimacy. Why? The reasons might be many and varied from one individual to another:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

10 New-Year Resolutions Which Will Enable You to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship Next Year

If you wish wholeheartedly to succeed in cultivating a successful intimate relationship but haven’t been able to doing so this year, here are10 New Year Resolutions which, if you decide to adopt and follow, will empower you to develop the relationship you so much desire: 1. TAKE TIME OFF from running endlessly from one date to another. 2. HONESTELY CONTEMPLATE the reasons which might have caused your relationships to fail this year. 3. ASK YOURSELF QUESTIONS you may not have asked before, such as:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Survive the Holidays’ Blues: Learn about Yourself and Become Empowered to Develop a Successful Relationship

INTRODUCTION Are you afraid from being infected with the “holidays’ blues”? From feeling depressed and lonely? The best you can do for yourself is be determined to “use” the holidays’ time to find out why you’re still single and what you need to “work on” and change in order to find a partner and develop the relationship you so much long for. THE HOLIDAYS’ BLUES: THE LONELINESS, THE SILENCE

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

A Smart New Year Resolution: Develop Self-Awareness & Become Empowered to Have a Successful Intimate Relationship

STICK ON TO YOUR NEW YEAR RESOLUTION & BECOME ABLE TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP New-Year is a time for Resolutions. At times you promise yourself to do such and such in the coming year, but put this intention aside as soon as January 1 is over. The reason is that it is so easy and simple to just continue with things as they are, even if they don’t take you to where you want to be. However, you can promise yourself that, when it comes to a relationship, you will stick to your resolution. Consequently: If you truly wish to develop a successful relationship next year, and:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Self-manipulations, Justifications and Explanations Singles Use to Justify their Failed Relationships

During my many years of experience with Self-Awareness and Relationships I’ve witnessed often how many people use self-manipulations to justify to themselves why they AREN’T successful in developing an intimate relationship. These justifications apparently help them feel “good” about themselves. Unfortunately, by doing so they hinder their attempts to cultivate the relationship they hope for. Becoming aware of their self-manipulations and honest with themselves is therefore essential. JUSTIFICATIONS SINGLES USE: A SAMPLEr

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Change the Way You Do “The Dating-Game”- and Succeed in Developing an Intimate Relationship

INTRODUCTION If you have been in the dating-game for quite a long time now and still are not successful to develop a successful intimate relationship, maybe it’s time for you to change tactics. Having the courage to do things differently may prove to be “the right way” to succeed in finding a partner and developing the relationship you so much desire. HAVE YOU BEEN TRYING TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP – BUT FAILED TIME AND AGAIN?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

When Should You Embark on The Self-Awareness Process & Learn How to Succeed with Your Relationships?

WHEN IS THE SELF-AWARENESS PROCESS NOT A CHOICE, BUT A REQUIREMENT? Whether you are single wishing to develop a satisfying intimate relationship but to no avail, or in a relationship experiencing problems and difficulties similar to the ones you have experienced with previous partners, and you wish to finally get a grip on what’s causing you to fail time and again, developing your Self-Awareness is a MUST. THE TRIGGETING POINT

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Alone During the Holidays? Take the Time to Heal Yourself and Become Able to Develop a Successful Relationship Next Year

It always amazes me to see the ways in which people attempt to ensure they have someone to spend the holidays with. Some SINGLES vehemently look for a partner right before the holidays in order to escape being alone while “everybody else is with loved ones”. Those in a RELATIONSHIP often decide to stay in it, even if it’s an unsatisfying one, in order to have a “partner” during the Holidays – secretly intending to leave right after.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Self-Awareness or Attraction and Desire: Which is More Important for a Successful Intimate Relationship?

Many believe that attraction and desire are some of the most important ingredients of a successful relationship. But a less-known concept – Self-Awareness – is vital to the maintenance of a long-term healthy and satisfying intimacy. INGREDIENT OF A GOOD RELATIONSHIP Many perceive sexual attraction to be an uttermost important ingredient of a good relationship: the partners feel attracted to one another; they touch and kiss and make love; they hold each other tight and can’t separate even for a minute; they cuddle into each other’s arms and sleep and dream together.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

If You Fail with Your Relationships Time and Again, Isn’t It Time to Develop Your Self-Awareness?

At times, when you find yourself failing – once again! - to develop a successful intimate relationship, you may think about developing your Self-Awareness and get a hold on the ways in which you sabotage your relationships. But then, do you feel motivated to doing so out of belief in the merit of Self-Awareness, or as last resort? WHEN SHOULD YOU BEGIN DEVELOPING YOUR SELF-AWARENESS?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Develop Self-Awareness & Succeed with Your Relationships 1: Stages of the Process

If you are sincerely motivated to develop a satisfying relationship and haven’t succeeded until now, developing your Self-Awareness is a must. It is the only means by which you can realize what made you fail in your relationships until now, change what needs change and become empowered to develop a satisfying intimacy. Listed below are the key steps you go thorough as you embark on the process of Self-Awareness: STAGES OF THE PROCESS

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Meeting “The Right Person” Is Not a Matter of Luck or Time But of Being “Available and Ready” for a Relationship

You probably know those who, when failing, time and again, in their attempts to develop an intimate relationship, tell you “it’s only a matter of time” until they will; “it is only a matter of meeting ‘the right person’”.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

“Loving Your Partner” or “Loving Too Much” Determines Whether the Relationship Fails or Succeeds

You may see yourself as someone who loves “taking care” of your partner. You do “all you can” to pamper, give and be there for him/her. But is it really “love” or are you driven by insecurity and a deep unconscious need to be loved? “LOVING” and “LOVING TOO MUCH” Do you, each time you begin a relationship, immediately begin taking care of your partner? That he’d eats properly; dresses properly; that he remembers his appointments? Do you, in spite of all this caring, are surprised to find yourself, time and again, abandoned and alone?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Observation and Awareness: The Keys to Understanding Why Your Relationships Fail

Are you fed up from blind-dates which lead you nowhere? Meeting the wrong people on dating sites? Experiencing disappointing relationships? If so, the time may have come for you to sit back and contemplate what’s going on and what to do next. The best way for you to use this time is to develop your Self-Awareness: to understand what made you fail in your relationships until now, and how to change it. As you develop awareness you’ll be able to understand how you have sabotaged your relationships until now.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

If You Want to Meet Your Soul-Mate, Meet Yourself First

If you haven’t been successful in cultivating an intimate relationship in spite of your continuing attempts, and are tired of disappointments, failed relationships, unfulfilled promises and/or partners who mislead you, you may resort to believing that you haven’t met your soul-mate yet. He/she hasn’t “showed-up” yet. When he/she will, the two of you will “hit it right away” and you’ll have the wonderful relationship you dream of. But how long should you wait? Is there anything you can do – while waiting - to ensure you will indeed meet your soul-mate?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Defining One's Relationship-Status on Facebook as “Complicated” – What Stands Behind it?

NO ONE HAS EVER PROMISSED YOU A ROSE GARDEN No one has ever said relationships are easy. Neither with a “soul-mate” nor with “loved-ones”. Arguments, disagreements and conflicts always exist. They are part of the relationship. THE MEANING OF “COMPLICATED”

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Writing Your “Relationships-Autobiography” Enables you to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

Writing one’s autobiography has become trendy these days. Old people write their autobiographies, looking-back at their life, to “leave something” for the next generations in their family. As they work on their autobiography they “look-back” at their life, remember the high points and contemplate their regrets, mistakes and whatever they have “missed”. THE IMPORTANCE OF OBSERVING YOURELF AND WRITING YOUR REALTIONSHIPS-AUTOBIOGRAPHY

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Attraction, Desire, Self-Awareness and Intimate Relationships

There are some surprising similarities betwee Sexual desire and Self-Awareness with regard to Intimate Relationships, some of which you might have never thought about. And why would you? The two seem to be worlds-apart. But are they? SIMILARITIES BETWEEN SEXUAL DESIRE AND SELF-AWARENESS 1. Sexual desire and Self-Awareness are both part of an intimate relationship. However, there are many who do without one or both of them. 2. People who go for a long time without sex sometimes don’t feel the need, desire or wish for it anymore.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

The Best 10 Tips You’ll Ever Receive on How to Keep Sabotaging Your Relationships

INTRODUCTION It is quite a pity to see people harming their relationships time and again and refrain from developing Self-Awareness to understand how to change. Do they really prefer to keep sabotaging rather than acknowledging how they shoot themselves in the foot and change? This article lists THE BEST 10 TIPS ON HOW TO KEEP FAILING IN RELATIONSHIPS. It is written in an ironic way. Those motivated to stop failing can proceed to “NOT DO” the 10 tips described here. 1. NEVER TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR PART IN THE FAILURE OF YOUR RELAITONSHIPS. IT IS ALWAYS YOUR PARTNER’S FAULT.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Self-Awareness: the Key to Understanding How You Sabotage Your Relationships and How to Change

Trying to develop an intimate relationship but failing time after time is a hint that something you do harms your attempts. Taking a careful look at what this “something” is will enable you to (finally) stop harming your relationships and develop the bond you desire. SELF-AWARENESS IS THE KEY TO UNDERSTANDING HOW YOU SABOTAGE YOUR REALTIONSHIPS Developing Self-Awareness is the best way to go about finding out how you sabotage your relationships. Being aware enables you to decide what needs change, and how to change. DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS CONSISTS OF 3 IMPORTANT STEPS:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Longing: Who Do You Long For After Separation?

Longing for your partner can fill you with joy, good thoughts and anticipation. There is someone to long for; to write poems to; to dream about at night. But if your partner is no longer there, longing can make you sad and melancholic, arousing the feeling of loneliness. But who are you actually longing for? The following short story – or shall we call it “a real life anecdote” – tries to answer this question. It might have happened to you – or to people you know. LONGING After longing for him so much, she didn’t understand where her longing had vanished to.r

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Relationship Advice

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